Okay, so here is the long version of the delivery story.
We went to the hospital at 9 pm on Wednesday September 19th for Steph’s induction. We didn’t really do much Wednesday night. They gave Steph some kind of gel to soften her cervix because she wasn’t dilated at all. Then they gave her a sleeping pill and we snoozed (well, she did, I got to curl up in a recliner for the evening, could’ve been worse I guess).
We got up the next day and Steph was barely dilated still. They installed a foley catheter at about 8:30 to speed things up a bit, and started a pitocin drip (there will be several medical terms, that I am sure I am misspelling) in her IV. Two and a half pain filled hours later, the foley catheter came out and Steph was 4 cm dilated. At that point, she was having pretty painful contractions. She dealt with the pain for about another hour before they gave her some nubane which gave her relief for about an hour. After the nubane wore off, she dealt with another hour of painful contractions before the epidural arrived. Steph was still 4 cm after the epidural. About 20 minutes after Steph got her epidural, they came in to break her water, and she had gone from 4cm to 11cm in about 20 minutes and was ready to go. They brought the doctor up and we started into pushing. Steph pushed 4 times over a span of about 5 minutes and out came a screaming Griffin at 2:05 pm. The delivery process went unbelievably well.
They moved us up to the maternity recovery floor about 2 hours after the delivery. At about 5 pm, Steph’s epidural started wearing off. They gave her some Motrin to help with the pain, and about an hour later, Steph’s pain had worsened to the point that her head was buried in her pillow, she was nauseous, and her legs were shaking from the pain. We thought that maybe she broke her tail bone, because the pain seemed to be localized in that area. I finally convinced the nurse that the pain wasn’t normal, and they gave her a shot of fenegrin and Demerol. The fenegrin did a good job of reducing her urge to vomit, but the Demerol didn’t do jack for her pain. I had to force the nurse to call the doctor because something wasn’t right. They just kept telling us that the pain was normal and that she would be sore after having a baby. The doctor on call came up, and I think he thought that Steph was being a sissy too. He was initially unsympathetic and acted like we were wasting his time. He did an excruciating exam and determined that she had an egg sized hematoma resting on her tail bone. They gave her some deloden thru her IV, and about 5 minutes later, her pain was tolerable. The doctor said we would wait until tomorrow to determine if she needed surgery. The hope was that the swelling would put enough pressure on the burst blood vessel to stop the bleeding. If the swelling had increased significantly, surgery would be required, if not, we could still elect to do the surgery to relieve her pain. They did say that the hematoma pain would be relieved immediately following surgery. Steph got her deloden thru her IV every 2 hours on the dot to keep her pain at bay, and we waited for the morning.
The doctors came back in about 8:30 the next morning to see how the hematoma had progressed, and determined that it was about 4 times the size that it was the previous night, and that surgery was necessary. Unfortunately, they had brought in Steph’s breakfast, and we nibbled a bit, so we had to wait 8 hours before they could do the surgery. The next several hours are kind of blurry in my memory. We had some visitors, but everybody was nervous about the surgery. Eventually, they came down to take Steph to the surgical floor. They let me back into the prep area with her, and we both were pretty scared. Our doctor came in and explained everything and said she had been reading and discussing the procedure with her colleagues all day and felt more than prepared for the surgery. They needed to drain her hematoma. Hopefully they would find the bleeding blood vessel, and be able to tie it off. They did say that finding the bleeder was a long shot. If they didn’t find the bleeder they would pack the area and put a lot of pressure on it to try to stop the bleeding. There was also a good potential that she would need a blood transfusion.
We spent the next hour and a half or so in the waiting room before our doctor came out. She took us to a small waiting area to give us the update on how things went. She said the surgery couldn’t have gone much better than it did. They drained the now football sized hematoma, found the bleeder, and were able to tie things off. The only real concern was if there was another bleeding blood vessel contributing to the problem. They still packed things in to provide lots of pressure just in case. I was very emotional, and the doctor got a bit upset as well, and I think I about squeezed her guts out when she said she was going to be fine and didn’t need a blood transfusion.
We spent the next couple of days recovering in the hospital. They let us keep Griffin at the hospital with us and allowed him to stay in the hospital nursery at night. Steph recovered well over the next couple of days, each day was dramatically better than the previous. They released us on Monday September 24th. We were in the hospital for 5 days total. To put things into perspective, Steph’s mom had open heart surgery earlier this year, and was in the hospital for 5 days.
The doctor said it would probably be about 6 months before Steph is completely back to normal. She will probably be pretty much back to normal in 8-12 weeks, but will have discolorization and some swelling for about 6 months.
Griffin was great thru the whole thing, which is good, because I don’t think I could have taken worrying about both him and his mommy. Our nurses were wonderful thru the whole thing (for the most part, we had one dud), and I can’t say enough about our doctor. She was fantastic with caring for Steph physically and taking care of both of us and our families emotionally thru the whole thing. She wasn’t on call the weekend after the surgery, and stopped in both days to check on us. She also called from home to see how we were doing on Monday (we could hear her kids running around in the background). She was amazing. We probably would have survived with another doctor, but I don’t think we could possibly have had better care.
Now we are at home and are working on figuring out G-man’s schedule and how to function as a family. We are settling in well, and would be happy to have visitors. Thanks to everybody for the cards, gifts, and prayers.